I’ve found with my own life, there’s only one journey that you can make, there’s easy parts, the straight road with a clear ‘end of the road sign’ & there’s the parts wich we don’t like. You’ll get lost, have to go back on yourself, 2nd guess yourself and end up in the same position more than once. We’ve all been through it and it what makes us stronger.
Below is a few things I’ve noticed when making the wrong choices and when making the right choices and how to focus in on the latter.
When you are going in the direction that gets you feeling scared, nervous, excited, it’s a good sign. People believe that negative emotions are bad and yes, they are, but only to some degree.
When you are passionate about something, you are scared of not achieving it. You get emotional thinking about it & you start to have some crazy thoughts. This is a good sign and you shouldn’t worry about it at all. That fear and the mix of emotions will keep you focused on accomplishing your goals.
Now compare that to a feeling of nothingness. You are at your job, there’s no emotion, nothing excites you & you aren’t eager to soaring with your position?
You probably aren’t too bothered about losing the job or whether the job is there in a years time.
Are you going to try doing well and succeeding to the best of your potential? Probably not.
There’s obviously going to a lot of positive emotions, feelings and thoughts.
Some people say when setting goals, take a moment to think how you would feel having accomplished your desires, whether that be travelling, purchasing a new car or house, setting up a new business, getting that promotion etc.
If you can sit and think about having the keys to your new house and it makes you happy and excited, then obviously you can start to recognise the journey you need to start going on.
Your journey will become clear to you when you know what you after, if you aren’t too sure on what you desire, I suggest checking out Goal setting, why it’s important and how you can set goals to propel your success.
Alternatively, if you know what you want to get out of life but not sure why, I recommend reading Do you know your WHY? and using this to create an action plan that you can use to create a clear path.
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